Well this post doesn’t seem to exist anywhere else, so I thought I would write up my experience of going to the Gathering (Lorien Trust) when 12 weeks pregnant. I had my character be pregnant too so to be easier.
Things I learnt:
1. I got far more tired far more quickly. Walking all over the site constantly was NOT an option. I took it slowly, pootled and didn’t push it.
2. I made sure to eat. Decently as I could as well as I figured 5 days of terrible food wouldn’t do anyone any favours.
3. I learnt that it’s ok to step over a faction ward to dodge a fight if you’re ooc pregnant, as ultimately that’s more important than THE IMMUTABLE NATURE OF MAGIC!
4. Ditto bending the ‘refs and invisible monsters aren’t there’ rule…and getting yourself out of the way before they are!
5. Not all of your kit will necessarily fit. I highly recommend some padded armour (from Mythologia is great, especially the long stuff) to keep you warm (and slightly padded as a bonus!) in the night.
6. You need a chair. By 12 weeks, I was finding sitting on the floor, especially leaning forward, REALLY uncomfortable – just demand / bring a chair!
It turned out to be a crap event for me for various ooc reasons, so I can’t help much more, but if it’s any help lots of people have gone lrp’ing when pregnant and it’s fine. I’d avoid fights just for peace of mind, but going lrp’ing is totally fine when you are pregnant – just do what feels ok!